Guide: How to Use a Strapless Strapon Dildo for Lesbian or Straight Pegging Sex

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 Interested in strapless strapon dildos? You've come to the right place. This guide will explain how to use this amazing new sex toy to have delightful and fun sex with your partner regardless of whether you are a lesbian, bisexual or straight woman. 

What are strapless strap-on dildos?

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A strapless strap-on is a dildo that has been designed exclusively for females to be used during penetrative intercourse. Unlike a normal strapon dildo which is attached to a harness worn by the woman, the strapless strapon is inserted up into her vagina and does not require a harness (although one can still be used to provide additional support).

The strapless strap on is meant to be held in place by a woman’s Kegel muscles which are also sometimes called PC muscles. The advantage of the strapless model dildo is that it provides the female wearing it pleasure during thrusts, as a strapless dildo is basically a special kind of double dildo.

Strapless dildos can be used by same-sex female lovers who wish to enjoy concurrent sexual stimulation during lesbian sex, and also by straight women who take delight in pegging men. 

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Many straight couples enjoy pegging -- a female using a strapon dildo to penetrate a man's anus. This is called "pegging" in the sex fetish community.

This product has been designed to give the partners using it a realistic thrusting motion as if the woman had a real penis. Some models of these dildos also come with awesome three-speed vibrator variation modes. The strapless dildo fits into woman's body smoothly through her vagina, giving the wearer excellent and natural thrusting control and motions as if she were a man. When the models come with a vibrator they usually has a three speed vibrator which can be easily slipped into the base giving the female partner wearing the dildo an increased sensual pleasure during the act.

Why would a woman want to penetrate a man with a dildo?

There has been a surge of interest in pegging as the practice has become shown in recent popular media. For example, the 2016 superhero-comedy Deadpool features the main character and his girlfriend engaging in pegging during "International Women's Appreciation Day".

 

Pegging has also been featured in films and TV shows such as  Zack and Miri Make a Porno, Weeds, Peep Show, Broad City and the Netflix series Marco Polo.

There are some folks who mistakenly assume that women who enjoy strapon sex secretly want to be men. This is usually false -- what the woman enjoys is the control she has over her partner. Pegging is sometimes coupled with bondage / BDSM practices and activities for this reason. A lot of women get into pegging because they are turned on by the role reversal dynamic of the pegging strapon sex act. It is something new and different.

Like men, a woman can find having a guy beneath her moaning and gasping in pleasure to be a major turn on. It can be a real mind high to be in control of another person and responsible for giving them sexual pleasure. There are aspects of dominance, power, intimacy, and strength that women find to be very attractive and positive about the act. 

For some women seeing their normally very masculine and strong male partner in a vulnerable sexual state is very exciting and hot. For this reason pegging is something many women find they enjoy doing to a man. However due to social stigmas it's often something she can only do with a man she has dated for a long while and has built a lot of trust with. 

Why would a man want to get pegged? Does getting pegged with a strapon make a man gay?

Men can also enjoy the act of receiving a dildo as it can stimulate the prostate, which many men find very enjoyable. Some men also enjoy submitting sexually to their women and find the practice erotic and sexy.

The act of pegging does not make a male gay, as homosexuality would be attraction to other men whereas pegging is something a woman does to a man. A man that wants to be pegged by a woman might be bisexual but only if he has attraction to other men. If he is only attracted to women then he is heterosexual / straight and getting pegged does not make him gay. Sexual orientation is about gender attraction and is not defined by activities a person participates in. So men that have pegging fantasies should not be concerned nor should their female partners. 

Why would women want to have lesbian sex with a strapon?

Like heterosexual couples, many lesbians find the most natural method of sexual intercourse to be penetration. This allows the couple to touch one another with their hand and kiss each other while using the hips to grind against one another. While lesbians can engage in tribadism / scissoring, the deep penetration possible with a dildo provides different sensations that many women find provide strong orgasms. Strapons are therefore an important sex toy among many lesbian couples.

Strapless strapon dildos are thus a great invention because as a double dildo they allow both partners to be sexually stimulated physically, whereas with a traditional strapon dildo the penetrating partner does not get physically stimulated and is only mentally stimulated during the act. 

 

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(Note: The only way for men to use these dildos is to be on a receiving end.)

 What is it like wearing a strapless dildo?

At first sight, the strapless dildo looks funny but once you learn to use it, it becomes brilliantly simple to use during intercourse.

For women who are newly into strapless strap-on sex, it is particularly difficult to continue holding the thing with their pelvic muscles. To cover this up, experts suggest that women go for a simple Kegel pelvic floor routine. This exercise strengthens the muscles and help women gain a stronger grip over the strap on.  Strapless strapons can also be used with most strapon harnesses to help keep them in place. We carry several kinds of harnesses in our catalog which can be purchased for this purpose.

 Why would I want to wear a harness with a strapless dildo?

As mentioned before, some women have difficulty holding the strapless dildo because their pelvic muscles are weak. Kegel exercises can be done to build strength but this is not always an option. As an alternative a strapon harness with a ring can be used to hold the dildo and provide additional support although some women also find that simply cutting a hole in the front of a panty is also sufficient for providing the support they need while the strapless dildo is inserted into them.

Can beginners use strapless dildos?

Some guides say that strapless dildos are not recommended for beginners but this really depends on your comfort and experience level. Using the strap on is an art that is more like an athletic event. It requires proper balancing and quite a bit of endurance. To start with, get a flare based dildo with an effective harness in order for her to gain practice. Double dildos come at an advanced stage when the both partners, especially her, have mastered how to handle a single at suitable speed and depth that suits both the partners.

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What really makes the experience more thrilling and exciting is that these strapless strap-on are mostly waterproof. Whereas a harness based strapon is difficult to use in water, these models can be used easily for water-based sex such as in a swimming pool or hot tub. 

To enhance the effectiveness of strapless dildo sex, another recommendation is that of sex swings. Position yourself better so as to be able to give the maximum pleasure to your partner and yourself without the dildo falling out or gushing. You need to keep the speed in your control, communicate with your partner and of course hold a proper discipline to master the art of putting on a strapless dildo.

Using lubes

Like all strap ons, they are best used with a good quality lubricant. A poor quality lube will make the play dry and sticky eventually killing all the fun. Having a fine quality of lubricant is one of the fundamental necessities if you want to be able to pleasurably wear a strapless strap on and without killing the joy out of it.

Lube is necessary because the dildo is a silicone based sex toy and it makes insertion easier. It's absolutely essential for any kind of anal sex, as unlike the vagina and the anus has no means of self lubrication. 

Last but not the least important factor to consider is the right size that fits you and your partner. While buying a strapless strap on sex toy, just make yourself comfortable with the size and the adjustability of the harness. This is really important because no one like to ruin their experiences by chewing in more than they can handle easily.

We hope these tips in this guide have been helpful to you.